My sexual escapades have taken a back seat this week. Instead of playing and having fun, we’ve been working, going to dentist appointments, running around borrowing guns and trying to find ammo for our concealed carry class yesterday and arranging childcare for our daughter. Whew! The week went by in the blink of an eye it seems! The concealed carry class was great except having to shoot in the wind and rain. Our targets were blowing in the wind – literally. The class was eight hours plus range time which makes for a very long day to say the least. I learned a lot about our state laws concerning concealed and open carry though. I also received my certificate to apply for my permit so all in all totally worth it! I used a Beretta 22 caliber for my test and I am in love with this gun. It is a really user friendly semi-automatic handgun. The clip I used for ammo has this very useful spring to help load the ammo making it easy even for a petite lady to use. The spring handle on the clip makes certain you will never load the clip backwards! For avid shooters, this may seem trivial. However, for novices such as myself it is a great safely feature lol. The gun shoots very smooth and has very very little kick – of course it is a 22 caliber so there shouldn’t be much kick anyway. The clip slides out easily with the push of a button when you’re done and the slide stays open. You can close it then when you load another clip, you slide it back and it loads the next bullet. I really really like this gun and am extremely proficient with it. Yesterday was my 5th time shooting in my entire life and all of my shots were in the 9 ring or better – even in the rain and wind. The only problem is it is a bit bulky. I think I’m going to purchase this gun for open carry but for concealed carry I need to find something smaller. Ideas? Suggestions?
I was eager to try more anal play but my boyfriend and I were slightly annoyed with each other. I’ve always been the one who wanted to be blindfolded or tied up and it really didn’t occur to me to flip the script until that night. I told him to follow me, sat him down on the couch and put a blindfold on him. I gathered a small array of supplies – my new mini suede flogger, satin gloves, a warming lube, some anal lube and the tiny butt plug which is my new fave toy. I teased him first with my bare hands, running them over his body. Then I put on the gloves and alternated stroking him with the satin and kissing various body parts. I went down on him for a few seconds, then stroked him with the flogger. I wasn’t really sure how he would react to that since we haven’t used that type of toy before. He seemed to be OK with it, so I gently smacked his upper thigh with it. He seemed to enjoy it so I did it a few more times. I put a few drops of the warming lubes on his cock then went down on him until he almost climaxed. Then I stopped and left him sitting there wile I lubed up the anal plug and inserted it into myself. I climbed on top of him and put his hardness into myself. I started riding him and all of a sudden the anal plug plopped right onto the ground. I ignored it and rode him until he climaxed. It was very interesting to be the one in control instead of being the one controlled. Afterwards, we were talking and he admitted he had never been blindfolded before. I was in utter shock. He said he had always been the one to blindfold other people and he wasn’t sure why he had never been on the receiving end previously. He also said he really liked it! I was in awe and honored to be the first and only one to blindfold him. We will have to do that more often!
We decided to follow through on trying sex with the super small butt plug in place. We went about it a little different this time, warming up with an oral orgasm followed by vaginal sex first. We also tried a new lube – one specifically designed for anal sex. There was no burning this time! He was already inside me when he slipped the plug in so there was no discomfort of him trying to enter with it already in place. It was very different from anything I’ve ever experienced. I could feel the fullness in my anus and him going in and out and I can’t really describe in words the sensation. Apparently, the base of the plug hit him in the right spot because he reached orgasm super quick. While it was enjoyable to me, but sadly I didn’t get a second “O”. Afterwards, we were discussing the experience and he said it hit him in the perfect spot and he wasn’t used to that sensation. So, we found a great plug and a great lube and that made all the difference!
My boyfriend has been hinting for a few months now that he wanted to try anal sex with me. My experience with anal sex was with an ex-bf who “oops wrong holed” me once and it hurt like crazy. Since said time, my answer has been a resounding hell no on the rare occasions the subject has arisen. I finally decided to have a conversation with my boyfriend and explained my fear. He was understanding and the subject dropped. Or so I thought. To my surprise, I started thinking about it more and more and decided to do some research into the subject. Everything I read said the same things – anal sex should NOT hurt, use lots of lube, go very slow. I told my boyfriend I would consider getting some small toys and see how it goes before I commit to anything. One night after a few too many rum and cokes he used lubed up his finger and slid it in. It actually took me a little by surprise and it kept burning. I went back to research again and found the same info – anal sex should NOT hurt, use lots of lube, go very slow. I told him the next day that it burned and if that burned there was no way anything as big as him was going in there! He thought maybe it was tobacco residue on his finger that burned but I suspected it was a combination of surprise and the lube we were using which was highly disappointing since it is an organic lube! I decided to order a few super small butt plug toys as well as some anal lube before completely giving up on the idea. A few days later the package arrived and after our daughter went to sleep, we decided to try the smallest one. After warming up with oral and some vaginal penetration he lubed the super small butt plug up and slowly started to insert it. It was the strangest feeling – really indescribable. Slowly, slowly slowly he started to put it in and out a little at a time. After a few minutes the in and out started to feel better and better and he started to go a little faster, and a little faster. I had been using an egg vibe on my clit but it just wasn’t doing it for me. So, I grabbed my rabbit vibe and it wouldn’t go in! The plug apparently was making me tighter than usual which I didn’t think of previously. After about two minutes, I had an amazing orgasm. Afterwards, I told my boyfriend we should have sex with the plug all the way in since it would make me a little tighter and he eagerly agreed. To be continued……
1) Lelo Mia 2
2) ShibariWands HALO or wireless My Wand 10x from ShibariWands
3) Twisted (erotic novel)
4) Party Pack
5) More Books
6) Tantus Cush 02
For a long time I’ve been a mild submissive in bed without realizing what it was called. I read the Story of O many years ago and would be so aroused by what I was reading. I started amassing sex toys of various nature as well as different types of porn and engaged in sex without abandon. Sadly I was unable to have an orgasm via sex but could via oral sex or certain toys. At the time I also didn’t realize that was pretty normal for a woman. I also didn’t realize some of my toys could possibly be harmful to my health based on the material of the item. When I met my current boyfriend we had the best sex of my life – there was something amazing about us together! I had my first orgasm via sex and couldn’t believe it! Life intervened and we separated for a few years. He got back in touch with me randomly six years ago and we started dating. Our sex life is simply amazing and needless to say I haven’t looked back. I’ve always liked him to blindfold me or restrain me with his hands, cuffs, under the bed restraint system, etc. Recently we have started exploring other things and I plan to write about those here as well as give my honest opinions about toys we are trying. Enjoy!